The Handmaiden

Movie • 2016 • Drama  

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1930s Korea, in the period of Japanese occupation, a young woman is hired as a handmaiden to a Japanese heiress who lives a secluded life on a large countryside estate with her domineering uncle. But, the maid has a secret: she is a pickpocket recruited by a swindler posing as a Japanese count to help him seduce the heiress to elope with him, rob her of her fortune, and lock her up in a madhouse. The plan seems to proceed according to plan until the women discover some unexpected emotions.
This movie contains 66 potentially triggering events.
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Does the dog die?
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Abandonment
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Is a child abandoned by a parent?
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Abuse
Are there abusive parents?
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Is someone stalked?
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Mental and physical abuse of a man toward his wife and his niece
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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Is someone gaslighted?
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reesew
a whip, not a belt, but the same idea
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Is a child abused?
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queerdragon
A child is physically and mentally abused in several graphic scenes, and she's sexually groomed.
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Addiction
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Constant use of cigarettes one of which is laced with mercury and used for suicide
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Is there addiction?
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Cigarettes.
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BellaRad
Sake is fed to crying babies
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Animal
Were animals harmed in the making?
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Does a horse die?
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Does an animal die?
(besides a dog, cat or horse)
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Are animals abused?
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Ofinlay
Minor spoiler: there is a marine animal kept in a very small tank, could be interpreted as animal abuse.
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Is there a dead animal?
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Is an animal sad?
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Are rabbits harmed?
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Does a cat die?
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Does a pet die?
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there spiders?
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swirlboy
Not sure why all these comments here are about snakes
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Are there alligators/crocodiles??
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Are there snakes?
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Starlingley
There is a statue of a snake that marks the entrance to a library, but there are no live snakes in the movie.
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Are there sharks?
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Are there bugs?
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queerdragon
There's a brief scene with a cockroach in food.
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Assault
Does a woman get slapped?
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Is someone drugged?
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Is there pedophilia?
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Lixie
Adults groom a child and a heavy part of the story revolves around it
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Is someone held under water?
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Is rape mentioned?
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Is someone beaten up by a bully?
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Is someone restrained?
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queerdragon
A man attempts to rape his wife but fails and she manages to escape.
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Is someone's mouth covered?
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moschidae
There are a bunch of scenes where a woman is preforming sexual acts without consent- no actual r but i'm going to say its uncomfortable enough to count
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Bodily Harm
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Lazer
Someone cuts her hand open with a knife and the blood is shown
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Are any hands damaged?
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Are there dislocations?
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reesew
a character chokes herself and there’s incidents of hangings?
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Chocking with hands and noose
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Is there decapitation?
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Is there cannibalism?
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Is someone crushed to death?
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Is someone choked?
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Is there body horror?
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Is there amputation?
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royandale
Someone has their fingers cut off with bookbinding equipment.
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Does a head get squashed?
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Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
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Is there a hanging?
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queerdragon
There's two graphic scenes of hanging, one non-lethal, and numerous discussions of it.
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Does someone asphyxiate?
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februarryy
not really, but there is one scene where the lady says she has a sharp tooth and the handmaid files it down with a thimble. you dont see the tooth or the action at all
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Does someone become unconscious?
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Does someone break a bone?
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Does someone have a seizure?
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m3101
Attemped in the torture scene near the end of the film but not shown
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Anonymous
A man's fingers are slowly cut off in the basement.
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Is someone tortured?
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Sandphin
Graphic scene near the end of the film.
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Does someone fall down stairs?
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is someone stabbed?
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Ofinlay
Some blood in a scene later in the movie, and blood from fingers getting cut off. Not what I would call excessive
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Children
Is an infant abducted?
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Does a kid die?
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wildflowerchild
a young girl is forced to read sexual content aloud multiple times
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Creepy Crawly
Are there bedbugs?
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Death
Does someone sacrifice themselves?
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hellos
*spoilers, obviously*

the two main women don’t die. men die though
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Does a non-human character die?
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Does someone die?
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Disability
Is the r-slur used?
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Drugs/Alcohol
Does someone overdose?
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Family
Is someone kidnapped?
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Does a parent die?
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Though she was not an actual parent, a kind of parental figure commits suicide and the deaths of the main characters' mothers is discussed
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Does someone cheat?
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Lazer
It’s more of doubling back on a deal than cheating on a committed relationship but someone is involved with two people at once
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Is a child's toy destroyed?
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Does a family member die?
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Fear
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Anonymous
If you want to watch the film but need a heads up on the jump scare: it happens soon after her arrival at the house, when Sookee goes to enter the library, the old man scares her with a statue of a snake. If i had the movie with me i would give you the actual time it happens but i don't, sorry
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Is someone possessed?
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Are there ghosts?
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cherry
none shown, but discussed
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Are there clowns?
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Are there natural bodies of water?
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Is trypophobic content shown?
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Are there razors?
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Anonymous
There is a romantic bath scene with sexual implications
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Anonymous
There's a wooden body figure but nothing like what we think of as a contemporary mannequin. It has no face carved.
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Gross
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Anonymous
Briefly mentioned, but not shown.
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Does someone vomit?
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Yep555
Around the 19 minutes of the movie when the woman runs to the bathroom. Not really sure if she really tr*w up or if she just cough but there are noises + heaving, that look a lot like it.
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Is someone eaten?
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Is there on-screen pooping?
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Does someone spit?
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BellaRad
Not spitting per se but there's a scene where someone very messily bites into a peach and juice comes out everywhere
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Is there audio gore?
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Sandphin
During the torture scene at the end. I hid my face but still heard the noises. yuck.
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Is there farting?
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Large-scale Violence
Are there 9/11 depictions?
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Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
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Deny005
There's a scene that takes place in an asylum, it could be seen as such
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LGBTQ+
Is there deadnaming or birthnaming?
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Are there transphobic slurs?
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Is an LGBT+ person outed?
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Is there bisexual cheating?
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Loss
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MovieWatcher10
*Spoilers* Before their escape, the two women destroy the library with the perverted books from the abusive uncle. A cathartic scene to some.
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Medical
Is electro-therapy used?
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Are needles/syringes used?
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Real_Horrorshow
someone is put in a mental institution against their will
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queerdragon
A character is forcefully placed into an asylum and there are brief scenes inside.
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Is there menstruation?
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Does someone have cancer?
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Mental Health
Does someone suffer from PTSD?
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Does someone have a mental illness?
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m3101
A character cuts their hand and some blood is shown
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Is autism misrepresented?
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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Is there D.I.D. misrepresentation?
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wildflowerchild
a woman attempts to hang herself but is saved at the last second
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Is reality unstable or unhinged?
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Does someone have a meltdown?
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Is there misophonia?
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BellaRad
A person bites into a peach messily/noisily
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Is there ABA therapy?
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Is there body dysphoria?
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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leee
No, but there is scene where a character eats one grain of rice at time.
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Is there autism specific abuse?
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Starlingley
They talk about two characters who die by suicide in the first part of the movie. In part two of the movie they show the aftermath of one suicide by hanging and the attempt of another hanging. There is also talk of plans for suicide by overdose.
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Noxious
Are there sudden loud noises?
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Are there underwater scenes?
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Does a baby cry?
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pirpar
quite a bit at the start of the movie
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Is there shakey cam?
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Is there screaming?
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wildflowerchild
A lot of graphic sexual language, it's a large part of the plot
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Paranoia
Is someone watched without knowing?
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Is the fourth wall broken?
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Pregnancy
Is a baby stillborn?
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Is there childbirth?
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Are there abortions?
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moschidae
skip the first section of the movie if you're upset by these themes- i dont have timestamps unfortunately but they go away after protag arrives at the estate. However they are briefly brought up in a sex scene where one character is kissing the others chest and it was enough to upset me, so watch out.
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Does someone miscarry?
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isabella431
a woman dies in childbirth but its only talked about
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Prejudice
Are there fat jokes?
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Sandphin
No Black people in this movie; everyone is Asian.
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Are there homophobic slurs?
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Are there "Man in a dress" jokes?
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Is there hate speech?
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Anonymous
At the beginning of the film, the slur “J*p” is used.
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Is a minority is misrepresented?
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Yes
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error_cascade
Potential spoiler territory, but this film is arguably the opposite of the dead lesbian trope.
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Are there n-words?
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Is there aphobia?
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Race
Is there blackface?
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Relationships
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wildflowerchild
An old man intends to marry his niece
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Religious
Is religion discussed?
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Are there demons or Hell?
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Sex
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Sandphin
Very explicit
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MovieWatcher10
While it can be said that the sex scenes between the two female leads are sexualized, I've seen commentary from queer asian people saying that the movie meant a lot to them. The scenes can also be viewed as explicit, sexual liberation for two characters who've been controlled and abused prior, but find a freedom in each other.

Behind the scenes, the male director consulted a lesbian friend of his and while they shot the sex scenes, the male staff was absent.
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wildflowerchild
And a lot of them
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Is there bestiality?
71 supporters
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Amy17
Pictured not seen
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Is there BDSM?
19 supporters
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5
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pajama
not explicit sub/dom dynamics but there are restraints, power and control, and kink/tie adjacent moments
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Does someone lose their virginity?
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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77 supporters
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queerdragon
There is no actual incest but a man sexually abuses his wife's niece and intends on marrying her.
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Sexism
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Sickness
Does someone have a stroke?
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Does someone have a chronic illness?
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7
Is there dementia/Alzheimer's?
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9
Is someone terminally ill?
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Social
Is someone homeless?
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13
Are there anti-abortion themes?
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5
Are there fat suits?
21 supporters
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6
Is existentialism debated?
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Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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Are there end credit scenes?
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5
Does it have a sad ending?
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Vehicular
Does a car crash?
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Does a car honk or tires screech?
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Does a plane crash?
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Is someone hit by a car?
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Violence
Is there a nuclear explosion?
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Is there blood/gore?
50 supporters
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error_cascade
Most of the gore is in a graphic torture scene at the end of the film; there’s a caning scene midway with no blood shown.
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Does someone drown?
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Is there gun violence?
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