Call Me By Your Name
Movie • 2017 • Drama
ReportIn 1980s Italy, a relationship begins between seventeen-year-old teenage Elio and the older adult man hired as his father's research assistant.
This movie contains 23 potentially triggering events.
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Elio dissociates when watching Oliver dance with a female (most likely due to jealousy). He also dissociates in his bedroom, likely thinking about Oliver, in that same scene he begins to touch himself but that’s not the point. Yes, there is dissociation.
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Does an abused person forgive their abuser?
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There is no abuse in the movie whatsoever.
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Is someone stalked?
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TFMD
Elio becomes infatuated with Oliver and indulges in some mildly stalker-like behaviour (eg. sneaking into Oliver's room to put Oliver's boxer shorts over his face). It is presented as benign, never turns controlling or menacing, and Oliver is mostly flattered.
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Is there domestic violence?
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There is no abuse in the movie whatsoever.
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Dreamscape
The movie's about a romantic relationship between a 17 year old and a 24 year old
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Addiction
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ilomilo12
Cigarettes, but that's it.
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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Indieeclipseeeeee
No one abuses alcohol but there is a scene where the 2 main characters are drunk and one throws up rather suddenly
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Animal
Were animals harmed in the making?
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MariaPerez
The fish in the patio scene
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xaM003
No, but a fish is carried towards the house likely to be cooked later
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Are animals abused?
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MariaPerez
An alive fish is being carried to the kitchen by a man with bare hands.
You can see the fish opening and closing the mouth trying to breathe. I loved the movie but this scene made me look away.
You can see the fish opening and closing the mouth trying to breathe. I loved the movie but this scene made me look away.
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Is there a dead animal?
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MilesGwenStacyMorales
Dead fish that was caught at around 25:00 when Elio is sitting at a table and writing. Elio makes bubbling sounds with the fish.
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Are there bugs?
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Indieeclipseeeeee
There are bugs surrounding many of the scenes, as this is Italy in the summer, but no graphic up close bug shots
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Assault
Does a woman get slapped?
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Is there pedophilia?
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In some places the age 17 is legally no longer “underage” but, in most states it is not. So yes, Literally the entire movie.
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Dreamscape
The movie is a romance between a 17 year old and a 24 year old
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Bodily Harm
Is there shaving/cutting?
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f dot ahm
There is a seconds-long-shot of Elio shaving his barely-there mustache in front of a mirror.
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Is there cannibalism?
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no but Armie Hammer is a Cannibal
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Anonymous
24 yo has a relationship w a 17yo
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Creepy Crawly
Are there bedbugs?
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No but there are flies.
In a few scenes a fly lands on Elio, Nothing graphic.
Just for the people who don’t like seeing bugs on people.
In a few scenes a fly lands on Elio, Nothing graphic.
Just for the people who don’t like seeing bugs on people.
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Death
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Does a non-human character die?
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MilesGwenStacyMorales
A dead fish that was caught at around 25:00
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Disability
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Drugs/Alcohol
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Family
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Does a parent die?
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JasmineBerrima
no a parent does not die
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Does someone cheat?
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KaiLemhagen
Elio has a sort of girlfriend and doesnt tell her when he starts dating Oliver and SPOILER ALERT! Oliver has a girlfriend back home who in the end of the film we find out that he is getting married to
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Just Elio, shaving his non-existing mustache.
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Is there a shower scene?
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peachess420
not specifically showers but lots of water/ swimming
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Gross
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Does someone vomit?
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Near the end of the film, Armie Hammer's character dances with a woman while Timothee Chalamet's character watches. When we cut from Armie dancing with the woman in front of a door to Timothee, he suddenly and unexpectedly vomits. It's over fairly quick, but surprising and very visible.
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Is there on-screen pooping?
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No but in the book Elio and Oliver poop with each other to prove their love 🌝.
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Large-scale Violence
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Law Enforcement
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Is there bisexual cheating?
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Both Elio and Oliver cheat on each other with Females.
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Does someone attempt suicide?
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Does someone have a meltdown?
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Elio starts crying randomly on Oliver when he remembers Oliver will leave soon.
He also cried at the end of the movie but it wasn’t as serious as he did when he cried the first time.
He also cried at the end of the movie but it wasn’t as serious as he did when he cried the first time.
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Is there misophonia?
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fkns
lot of loud kissing
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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AdamGroffsjacket
There's a thirty second scene were Elio looks at himself in the mirror and kind of winces but that's up to interpretation
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Does someone say "I'll kill myself"?
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stalesourdough
not exactly, but elio does say to oliver "fuck, you'll kill me if you do that" in a sarcastic way
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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Bibisquad
Elio starts to cry and seems to be very emotional when Oliver's joining him in the attic.
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Does someone die by suicide?
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Noxious
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Is there shakey cam?
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TFMD
YMMV, but it was fairly mild from what I recall. My partner who gets nausea and headaches from shaky cam didn't have a problem with this film.
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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AdamGroffsjacket
Not necessarily flashing, but there's a scene where the colours are brightly distorted.
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Paranoia
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Is the fourth wall broken?
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AdamGroffsjacket
At the very end, Elio look into the camera for a couple of seconds but doesn't say anything.
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Pregnancy
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Prejudice
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Indieeclipseeeeee
Both main characters are Jewish but nothing happens to either because of it
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Is there hate speech?
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Anonymous
A character briefly describes getting sent away/ getting treatment if their parents found out they were gay
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Does an LGBT person die?
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TFMD
No LGBT characters die. Also, there's no mention of HIV/AIDS despite being a film about gay/bisexual men in the 80s - which is kind of refreshing.
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Race
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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xaM003
A 17 year old with a 24 year old. The 24 year old is also involved with a girl whose age is unspecified but who is likely younger than him but older than 18.
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Religious
Is religion discussed?
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Being Jew is mentioned but nothing to get offended about.
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Sex
Is there sexual content?
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Indieeclipseeeeee
Some scenes do get quite graphic.
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Are there nude scenes?
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Anonymous
some of the statues in the intro credits have genitalia out
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Sexism
Is a male character ridiculed for crying?
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JillCowan
Quite the opposite actually. Elio’s parents are very loving towards him while
He’s dealing with heartbreak.
He’s dealing with heartbreak.
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Spoiler
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Does it have a sad ending?
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TFMD
[SPOILERS] The lovers do not stay together in the end. However, to me, the ending was still hopeful. You have the sense that the relationship has been a positive experience overall, and Elio has his whole life ahead of him to meet other people and continue to explore his sexuality.
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Does a car honk or tires screech?
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It honks, but it's standing still
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Is someone hit by a car?
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No, but if you pay attention at one point Elio nearly accidentally crashes into a female background character with his bike which wasn’t scripted.
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Violence
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Is there blood/gore?
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A character gets a pretty intense nosebleed.
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