My Friend Dahmer

Movie • 2017 • Drama  

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Jeffrey Dahmer struggles with a difficult family life as a young boy. During his teenage years he slowly transforms, edging closer to the serial killer he was to become.
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Does the dog die?
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He lures a dog out Into the Woods with the intent to kill it, but chickens out last minute and yells at it to go away. Later on, the carcass of a large animal is found, but it is blurry so you can't tell if it's a dog or not. It definitely isn't the same dog though, because it's a different color. It might be a deer
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Were animals harmed in the making?
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Is there pedophilia?
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Is there bestiality?
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Is rape mentioned?
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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Is an animal sad?
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Abuse
Is someone stalked?
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dogsandsobs
The main character becomes obsessed with a local doctor that jogs a route near Dahmer's house on certain days of the week. He is shown hiding amongst trees/plants and watching the jogger.
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dogsandsobs
A couple are in a verbal disagreement over divorce papers, the woman hits the man in the head with the papers, knocking his glasses off. This causes them to briefly be shown grabbing at each other and arguing.
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Is someone gaslighted?
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Is a child abused?
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Addiction
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marijuana in social scenes
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Is there addiction?
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AllenPmaC
There is heavy alcoholism with the main character and a vague hint at prescription drug abuse with the main character's mom.
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deaddogfanclub
Dahmer develops an alcohol addiction. He is seen drinking heavily, and this habit is referenced to by other characters in the dialogue.
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Animal
Does a horse die?
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Does an animal die?
(besides a dog, cat or horse)
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Jeff and his friends go out fishing and despite being told that they needed to release anything they caught, Jeff kills a fish on-screen and gruesomely, saying he wanted to see what its insides looked like.
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Are animals abused?
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johnny
A fish is stabbed, a dog is lured into the woods with intent to do harm but is let go. The dog is yelled at to go away. All other animals were already dead when found, but it’s implied more were killed.
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AllenPmaC
roadkill: a cat, a possum.
Preserve jars for study: baby pig(?), other unclear jars you'd see in a biology class.
Unspecified animal bones.
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Does a cat die?
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Eva Carbonell Swan
Right at the beginning the main character is walking along the road with a plastic bag with a dead cat inside that he's planning to disolve in acid.
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Does a pet die?
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there spiders?
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Are there snakes?
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Are there bugs?
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Assault
Is someone restrained?
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shallowtowns
A doctor touches a character’s testicles offscreen, however it is done as normal medical procedure
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Bodily Harm
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deaddogfanclub
Dahmer slices open a fish with a knife. A character cuts the side of his hand, which is briefly shown, with another knife and mentions how his father slit someone’s throat with it.
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Does someone struggle to breathe?
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ironically, no lol
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Is someone crushed to death?
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Is there amputation?
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Does a head get squashed?
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Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
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Is there a hanging?
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Does someone asphyxiate?
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Carthage
School bully gives a kid a wedgie during the first lunchroom scene. Had to turn the movie off after that so I’m not sure if it continues throughout.
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Does someone break a bone?
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No, but Dahmer does fake/mock seizures in the hallways of his school.
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Is someone tortured?
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Does someone fall down stairs?
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is there excessive gore?
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Children
Does a kid die?
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Disability
Is the r-slur used?
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Drugs/Alcohol
Does someone overdose?
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Family
Does a parent die?
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deaddogfanclub
No toys are destroyed, but Dahmer’s dad destroys the young Dahmer’s shed and throws out his bone collection.
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AllenPmaC
*SPOILER ALERT WARNING*



The last scene is kidnapping but doesn't show anything more than a consenting hitchhiker getting in a car and the car drives away.
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Does someone cheat?
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Fear
Are there ghosts?
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Are there jump scares?
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Is there a shower scene?
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Are there clowns?
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There is a clown mannequin in the mall.
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Is someone possessed?
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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LizD
About six minutes in a kid makes gagging/vomit noises when Dahmer shows him his shed
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Does someone wet/soil themselves?
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Does someone spit?
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Is there audio gore?
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Large-scale Violence
Are there 9/11 depictions?
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Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
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Medical
Is electro-therapy used?
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Are needles/syringes used?
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Moviefox
There are several mentions of being in a mental institution/putting a character in a mental institution
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There is a somewhat-long, awkward scene inside a doctor’s office
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Does someone have cancer?
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Mental Health
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A character cuts himself with a knife to show off how sharp it is
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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No, but there are scenes suggesting a mockery of an autism meltdown.
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Is there misophonia?
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Although no anxiety attacks specifically are shown, a character’s fake seizures may be similar enough to affect someone
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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No Suicide happens, but a character point a gun to his head, playing russian roulette, and pulls the trigger but there is no bullet
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Does someone suffer from PTSD?
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Noxious
Is there shakey cam?
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Does a baby cry?
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Paranoia
Is the fourth wall broken?
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Pregnancy
Is a baby stillborn?
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Does someone miscarry?
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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Is there childbirth?
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Are there abortions?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Prejudice
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The word faggot is said
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Dahmer and friends repeatedly use problematic language and gestures regarding disabled people. It is done so frequently they refer to it as “doing a Dahmer”
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Are there usages of the n-word?
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A character jokes that his father was a nazi who killed jews.
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Are there "Man in a dress" jokes?
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SiRenfield
Well he doesn’t die in the movie itself but the epilogue does mention the real Jeffrey Dahmer’s death in 1990
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Are there fat jokes?
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AllenPmaC
only one. One of those "your mom" jokes.
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Does the black guy die first?
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There is ableist and homophobic language used, including slurs.
Dahmer also asks a black man insensitive questions about the color of his skin, and how his body compares to Dahmer's body because of it.
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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Sex
Are there nude scenes?
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Masturbation scene, topless photo of a woman, and a lot of talk about sex
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Sexism
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Sickness
Does someone have a stroke?
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Social
Is someone homeless?
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Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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Does it have a sad ending?
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Vehicular
Does a car honk or tires screech?
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Does a car crash?
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Does a plane crash?
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Is someone hit by a car?
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Violence
Does someone drown?
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deaddogfanclub
Since the film deals with the early years of Dahmer’s life, no murders are shown. However, there are dead animals including gory roadkill, a couple of small but bloody injuries and a scene where a fish is sliced apart. Dahmer talks about having a fascination with the insides of people and animals, often referencing surgery and cutting people open.
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Is there a nuclear explosion?
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dogsandsobs
A character eerily plays with a gun, recklessly firing it and pointing it at his head.
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