The Notebook

Movie • 2004 • Drama  

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An epic love story centered around an older man who reads aloud to a woman with Alzheimer's. From a faded notebook, the old man's words bring to life the story about a couple who is separated by World War II, and is then passionately reunited, seven years later, after they have taken different paths.
This movie contains 24 potentially triggering events.
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Does the dog die?
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MovieGoersForTruth
Most graphic depiction of a dogs death that I have ever seen. Also so out of place too, right after that intense romance scene... Strange...
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Unanswered Triggers
Is someone abused with a belt?
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Are there demons or Hell?
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Is existentialism debated?
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Is religion discussed?
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Does someone have a mental illness?
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Is a priceless artifact destroyed?
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Are there underwater scenes?
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Are there sharks?
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Abandonment
Is a child abandoned by a parent?
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Abuse
Are there abusive parents?
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Is someone stalked?
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saste12
Ally hits and slaps Noah a few times during arguments, but he doesn't retaliate or say anything about abuse. Might still be upsetting for folks if women hitting men in relationships makes you uncomfortable.
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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Is someone gaslighted?
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Is a child abused?
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saste12
Ally's controlling parents (or really her mother) might be triggering for some.
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Addiction
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Is there addiction?
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Does someone abuse alcohol?
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Animal
Were animals harmed in the making?
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Does a horse die?
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Does an animal die?
(besides a dog, cat or horse)
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Are animals abused?
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Blitkun
At about 1/3 of the movie there's a scene that takes place in a logging. In an establishing shot a donkey can be seen dragging wood and being whipped. It's not particularly graphic, but it can be distressing.
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Is there a dead animal?
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Is an animal sad?
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Are rabbits harmed?
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Does a cat die?
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Does a pet die?
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there spiders?
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Are there snakes?
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Are there bugs?
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Assault
Does a woman get slapped?
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Is someone drugged?
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saste12
The old woman is restrained by nurses and given a sedative in a scene when her alzheimer's makes her confused and combative. It doesn't seem like medical abuse to me though, it seems necessary to keep the old woman from hurting herself or others.
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Is there pedophilia?
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Is someone held under water?
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Is rape mentioned?
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honkycats
in the scene where allie's parents send the cops out looking for her at 2am and pull her into a room to have a conversation without noah, her mother can be heard saying "is he a rapist?" from behind the door
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Is someone beaten up by a bully?
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saste12
The old woman is restrained by nurses and given a sedative when her alzheimer's makes her confused and combative. It doesn't seem like medical abuse to me though, it seems necessary to keep the old woman from hurting herself or others.
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Is someone sexually assaulted?
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Bodily Harm
Is there shaving/cutting?
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Are any hands damaged?
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Is there throat mutilation?
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Does someone struggle to breathe?
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Is there decapitation?
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Is there cannibalism?
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Is someone crushed to death?
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Is someone choked?
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Is there body horror?
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Is there amputation?
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minny1994
Allie goes nursing for wounded soldiers and you can see in the back someone with a missing arm, it’s only one scene tho!!
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Does a head get squashed?
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Is there Achilles Tendon injury?
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Is there a hanging?
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Does someone asphyxiate?
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
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Allie faints when she sees Noah in the paper
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Does someone break a bone?
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Does someone have a seizure?
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Is someone tortured?
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Does someone fall down stairs?
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is someone stabbed?
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Is there excessive gore?
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Children
Is an infant abducted?
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Does a kid die?
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Creepy Crawly
Are there bedbugs?
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Death
Does someone sacrifice themselves?
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Does a major character die?
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Does a non-human character die?
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Does someone die?
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Disability
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Is the r-slur used?
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Drugs/Alcohol
Does someone overdose?
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Family
Does a family member die?
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Does a parent die?
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saste12
(Minor Spoilers) Noah's dad dies partway through the film. Noah is an adult when this happens. You don't see the actual death, but there is a funeral scene and a voiceover explaining it.
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Is a child's toy destroyed?
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Is someone kidnapped?
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Does someone cheat?
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saste12
(SPOILERS) Ally and Noah cheat on their partners together when they are reunited.
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Fear
Are there ghosts?
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Are there jump scares?
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Is there a shower scene?
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Are there clowns?
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Is someone possessed?
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Is trypophobic content shown?
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Are there razors?
S.A.F.E. ALTERNATIVES® (1-800-DONTCUT)
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Are there mannequins?
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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Lagarde
beautifully made movie and 100% emetophobia safe :)
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Does someone wet/soil themselves?
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Is there farting?
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Is someone eaten?
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Is there on-screen pooping?
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Does someone spit?
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Is there audio gore?
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Large-scale Violence
Are there 9/11 depictions?
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Law Enforcement
Is there copaganda?
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LGBTQ+
Are there transphobic slurs?
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Is there deadnaming or birthnaming?
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Is there bisexual cheating?
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Is an LGBT+ person outed?
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Medical
Is electro-therapy used?
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xoctk
yes but it's not visible, needles are one of my triggers and i wasn't bothered by it
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saste12
Technically it's a nursing home, though one of the characters is medicated and kept in a room by themselves when their alzheimer's makes them confused and combative.
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saste12
Parts of the film take place in a nursing home, and there are a couple scenes in hospital rooms.
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Does someone have cancer?
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Mental Health
Does someone self harm?
S.A.F.E. ALTERNATIVES® (1-800-DONTCUT)
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Is autism misrepresented?
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Is a mentally ill person violent?
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Is there D.I.D. misrepresentation?
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Is there autism specific abuse?
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Is reality unstable or unhinged?
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Does someone have a meltdown?
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Is there misophonia?
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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Is there ABA therapy?
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Amicicide
The phrase isn't explicitly said, but Noah threatens to drop from the Ferris wheel if Allie doesn't say she wants to go on a date with him. It's unclear how serious he is about the threat.
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Is there body dysphoria?
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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Does someone suffer from PTSD?
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Noxious
Are there sudden loud noises?
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Is there shakey cam?
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Does a baby cry?
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Is there obscene language/gestures?
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Paranoia
Is someone watched without knowing?
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Is the fourth wall broken?
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Pregnancy
Is a baby stillborn?
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Does someone miscarry?
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Are there babies or unborn children?
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Is there childbirth?
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Are there abortions?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Prejudice
Are there homophobic slurs?
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Are there usages of the n-word?
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Are there "Man in a dress" jokes?
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Does an LGBT person die?
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Are there fat jokes?
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Is there aphobia?
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Is a minority is misrepresented?
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Does the black guy die first?
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Is there hate speech?
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Race
Is there blackface?
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Relationships
Is there a large age gap?
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Sex
Are there nude scenes?
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Is there bestiality?
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Does someone lose their virginity?
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Is someone sexually objectified?
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Are there incestuous relationships?
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Is there sexual content?
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Is there BDSM?
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Sexism
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Sickness
Is someone terminally ill?
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Does someone have a stroke?
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Does someone have a chronic illness?
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saste12
The movie is based around one character's alzheimer's.
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Social
Are there fat suits?
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Is someone homeless?
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Are there anti-abortion themes?
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Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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Are there end credit scenes?
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Brad_Pitt
The Notebook is well known for it's sad ending.
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Vehicular
Does a car honk or tires screech?
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Does a car crash?
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saste12
Ally accidentally runs her car into a fence, breaking the fence down and stalling her car. No one is hurt.
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Does a plane crash?
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Is someone hit by a car?
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Violence
Does someone drown?
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Is there blood/gore?
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Is there a nuclear explosion?
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KirstenParriott
There is gunfire in the background and they are carrying rifles during the war scene.
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