The Farewell

Movie • 2019 • Drama  

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A headstrong Chinese-American woman returns to China when her beloved grandmother is given a terminal diagnosis. Billi struggles with her family's decision to keep grandma in the dark about her own illness as they all stage an impromptu wedding to see grandma one last time.
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Does the dog die?
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There's a dog named Ellen who "sings" as a party trick in one scene. No dying, only party.
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Does a pet die?
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Were animals harmed in the making?
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Is there pedophilia?
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Is there bestiality?
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Is rape mentioned?
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
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Is an animal sad?
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Abuse
Is someone stalked?
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Is there domestic violence?
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Is someone gaslighted?
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Is a child abused?
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Depends on if you count smoking cigarettes as drugs.
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Is there addiction?
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Billi's dad is a former alcoholic who gets drunk at some point in the movie. He also smokes despite having quit smoking. There is a joke about how her dead grandfather pretended to quit smoking but never did, and that he should be allowed to smoke in the afterlife.
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Jadespade
Billi's dad is stated to have been an alcoholic, which damaged his liver. He is pressured to drink at one point in the movie and is seen drunk.
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Animal
Does a horse die?
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Does an animal die?
(besides a dog, cat or horse)
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Are animals abused?
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No animal abuse. However, I was kind of annoyed that in two separate scenes (in China and New York) we saw a sparrow fly into Billi's room and she didn't manage to get it back outside, or even give it food or water (it looks tired). The bird doesn't die, so let's assume it escaped offscreen.
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Is there a dead animal?
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Does a cat die?
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Characters talk about a cat dying in the past tense, but no graphic details are given and there is no scene of the cat's death
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there spiders?
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Are there snakes?
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Are there bugs?
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Assault
Is someone sexually assaulted?
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Bodily Harm
Is there shaving/cutting?
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The grandmother has lung cancer and is seen coughing uncontrollably at some points in the movie.
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Does a head get squashed?
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Is there a hanging?
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Does someone break a bone?
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Does someone have a seizure?
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Is someone tortured?
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is there excessive gore?
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Children
Does a kid die?
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Family
Does a parent die?
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Fernanda
Though no one dies in the movie, it's implied the gradmother will die soon and this is the major theme of the story. There's also discussion of Billi's grandfather's death.
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Is someone kidnapped?
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Does someone cheat?
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Fear
Are there ghosts?
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Are there jump scares?
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Is there a shower scene?
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Are there clowns?
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Is someone possessed?
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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Does someone spit?
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Medical
Is electro-therapy used?
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Are needles/syringes used?
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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Several hospital scenes occur over the course of the movie because of the grandmother's illness.
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philippageorgiou
The whole movie is based on the director's actual family story of her grandma who is diagnosed with terminal cancer and three months to live, but as is common in China, the doctor tells the family and not the patient. In the end, the grandma doesn't die in the movie, and neither does she in real life!
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Mental Health
Does someone self harm?
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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Does someone have an eating disorder?
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Noxious
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Are there flashing lights or images?
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Pregnancy
Does someone miscarry?
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Is there childbirth?
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Are there abortions?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Prejudice
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Are there usages of the n-word?
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No explicitly LGBT characters featured
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Are there fat jokes?
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TFMD
It's a really minor thing, but when Billi first sees her grandmother, grandmother repeats a couple times that Billi looks big, not skinny like her mother claimed. Audience members laughed at this. However, it's a sweet scene and not malicious at all.
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Does the black guy die first?
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Is there hate speech?
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Sex
Are there incestuous relationships?
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Is there sexual content?
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Spoiler
Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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[SPOILERS] The ending is melancholy but sweet and hopeful. The grandmother doesn't die in the film, but Billie goes home knowing she will likely never see her again. A postscript tells us that the real-life inspiration for the grandmother is still alive, years later. However, it's not a happy ending in the sense that she makes a full recovery or anything like that.
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Vehicular
Does a car crash?
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Does a plane crash?
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Is someone hit by a car?
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Violence
Does someone drown?
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Is there blood/gore?
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Is there a nuclear explosion?
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Is there gun violence?
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