The Farewell

Movie • 2019 • Drama  

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A headstrong Chinese-American woman returns to China when her beloved grandmother is given a terminal diagnosis. Billi struggles with her family's decision to keep grandma in the dark about her own illness as they all stage an impromptu wedding to see grandma one last time.
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Does the dog die?
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There's a dog named Ellen who "sings" as a party trick in one scene. No dying, only party.
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Does a pet die?
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Were animals harmed in the making?
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Is there pedophilia?
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Is an animal abandoned?
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Is a minor sexualized?
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Is a woman brutalized for spectacle?
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Is there bestiality?
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Is rape mentioned?
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Is there genital trauma/mutilation?
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Is there domestic violence?
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Is a child abused?
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Is someone gaslighted?
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Addiction
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Jadespade
Billi's dad is stated to have been an alcoholic, which damaged his liver. He is pressured to drink at one point in the movie and is seen drunk.
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Depends on if you count smoking cigarettes as drugs.
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Is there addiction?
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Jadespade
Billi's dad is a former alcoholic who gets drunk at some point in the movie. He also smokes despite having quit smoking. There is a joke about how her dead grandfather pretended to quit smoking but never did, and that he should be allowed to smoke in the afterlife.
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Does a cat die?
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butterflyfish
Characters talk about a cat dying in the past tense, but no graphic details are given and there is no scene of the cat's death
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Does an animal die?
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Does a horse die?
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Are there spiders?
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Does a dragon die?
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Are there bugs?
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Are there snakes?
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Is there a dead animal?
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Are animals abused?
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No animal abuse. However, I was kind of annoyed that in two separate scenes (in China and New York) we saw a sparrow fly into Billi's room and she didn't manage to get it back outside, or even give it food or water (it looks tired). The bird doesn't die, so let's assume it escaped offscreen.
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Assault
Is someone sexually assaulted?
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Bodily Harm
Is there excessive gore?
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Is there eye mutilation?
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Is there finger/toe mutilation?
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Does a head get squashed?
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Is someone burned alive?
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Is there a hanging?
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Is there shaving/cutting?
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Is someone buried alive?
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Jadespade
The grandmother has lung cancer and is seen coughing uncontrollably at some points in the movie.
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Does someone break a bone?
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Does someone fall to their death?
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Does someone have a seizure?
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Are any teeth damaged?
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Is someone tortured?
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Children
Does a kid die?
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Family
Does someone cheat?
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Is someone kidnapped?
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Does a parent die?
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Fernanda
Though no one dies in the movie, it's implied the gradmother will die soon and this is the major theme of the story. There's also discussion of Billi's grandfather's death.
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Are there clowns?
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Is someone possessed?
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Is there a shower scene?
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Are there ghosts?
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Gross
Does someone vomit?
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Does someone spit?
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Medical
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philippageorgiou
The whole movie is based on the director's actual family story of her grandma who is diagnosed with terminal cancer and three months to live, but as is common in China, the doctor tells the family and not the patient. In the end, the grandma doesn't die in the movie, and neither does she in real life!
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Jadespade
Several hospital scenes occur over the course of the movie because of the grandmother's illness.
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Is electro-therapy used?
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Is there a mental institution scene?
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Mental Health
Does someone die by suicide?
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Does someone self harm?
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Is there body dysmorphia?
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Are there anxiety attacks?
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Is there a claustrophobic scene?
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Noxious
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Is there shakey cam?
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Pregnancy
Does someone miscarry?
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Is there childbirth?
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Does a pregnant person die?
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Are there abortions?
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Prejudice
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TFMD
It's a really minor thing, but when Billi first sees her grandmother, grandmother repeats a couple times that Billi looks big, not skinny like her mother claimed. Audience members laughed at this. However, it's a sweet scene and not malicious at all.
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No explicitly LGBT characters featured
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Is there hate speech?
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Are there usages of the n-word?
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Does the black guy die first?
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Sex
Are there incestuous relationships?
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Is there sexual content?
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Spoiler
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TFMD
[SPOILERS] The ending is melancholy but sweet and hopeful. The grandmother doesn't die in the film, but Billie goes home knowing she will likely never see her again. A postscript tells us that the real-life inspiration for the grandmother is still alive, years later. However, it's not a happy ending in the sense that she makes a full recovery or anything like that.
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Is Santa (et al) spoiled?
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Does a car crash?
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Is someone hit by a car?
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Does someone drown?
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Is there a nuclear explosion?
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Is there gun violence?
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